Melanie Humphries-Connolly

Kia ora, I’m Mel.

With over 30 years' experience as a Registered Nurse, specialising in palliative care, hospice, older adult mental health and dementia care, along with my training as an End of Life Doula, I provide compassionate, holistic support to individuals and their whānau.

I offer calm, steady presence, practical guidance, advocacy, and sacred care through times of change and uncertainty, honouring each person’s journey and supporting a gentle, dignified transition held with love.

I actively contribute to my local community by co-facilitating Death Cafés and supporting national initiatives such as Dying Matters Week, Compassionate Communities, and Death Without Debt.

I’m also a mother, musician, yoga enthusiast, and nature lover. My practice is grounded in compassion, respect, and a deep appreciation for life’s impermanence.

Feedback from those I've supported:

"Mel accompanied me and Mum at the end of her life. Her presence was profoundly supportive — not just in practical ways, but emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually. She is a treasure."

— Tink Stephenson

“It was such a relief to meet with you and feel I have someone to share the load with. I feel much better about facing my death with your support. Looking forward to getting my ducks in a row and having someone holding my hand while I do this”

— C.G.

"Words can’t describe the gratefulness our family feels for the support and guidance you gave to all of us around Dad’s journey. It felt very special to meet you. You are gold in what you are offering and how you deliver it. Thank you so much."

— Whānau

“I just wanted to touch base and let you know that all went well for my dad’s life celebration. The whole family was overwhelmed at the kindness and love shown by everyone. You made a huge difference to us, and I know my mum really appreciated your company and excellent support.”

— Whānau

Please feel free to phone or email me to arrange a complimentary 30-minute chat.

I’d love to explore how I can support you during this important time.

Available for in-person and remote support.